2007年2月13日星期二
這個問題終是悃擾著我。
什麼是朋友啊。
記得有一次不辛生病了。
也在同時知到什麼是真正的友情；什麼才算是知己。
朋有是一個能讓你在最脆落最傷心時依賴的人。
你知道在你最無助的時後他們會不故一西，赴湯稻火的為你羲牲。
那如果我們能比此信任的話，朋友也就不是問題了。
他的因素不在於你有多可靠或著有多開浪，和有善。
他最幾本的原因就是那兩個字 ﹣﹣ 信任。
如果我相信你可信任，你就是我的好朋友。
那如果在我開口說話是都得三思的話，那我覺這不是友憶而內有其他東東。
友情不之是覺得或你想是就是。
友情是個，是一種行動的表現。
他不在於你善不善常這方面的活動，也不是你反射的一片鏡子。
而是兩人之間的互動与平衡。
那也不代表他永遠都是平衡的。有時你需要他，同樣的他也有需要你的一天。
這是乎相信任吧。
小時後我已為我戀愛了。但時我朋友說如果你沒感受到一個特殊的感覺，那就不是愛。
友情和愛情有一些不一樣。雖說友情也充滿著愛的感覺，但是愛不是兩人的乎動那麼檢單。
愛情是一個天天都為那愛的人念念不忘，常常在他的位子的立場想。
心藏會不停的快跳。
我相信 : “When a friend changes you can find the bond that’s connecting you at a deeper level. The surface stuff isn’t a good thing to depend on. Physical bodies change as they grow. So do emotional bodies and intellectual ones. Take a deep breath. People move, life is more like a wild dance than a ceremony. You just can’t tell what’s coming next.”
（cant explain it in chinese haha）
One thing I feel needs to be said is that there are many other relationships that aren’t friendship that are still positive. There are many people I admire who aren’t friends. I work with lots of people who aren’t friends. It can be enjoyable
The world isn’t divided into two parts — friends and enemies. I choose to think of friend as a very strong word, representing a very close relationship. I think this may be in part due to what I do, because I need a good solid line separating my public life from my personal. A friend is a personal relationship. I like and admire many people who I don’t consider friends.
and
One of the hallmarks of a person, who is more likely to be a friend-that-was than a friend-for-life, is that person quotes anonymous people who say they were my friend but I betrayed them. That’s such a huge turnoff, which usually wakes me up in an instant. A friend would never even consider saying something like that, because it’s so objectifying, so impersonal, so unfair, so un-friendly. In a court of law you’re entitled to cross-examine your accusers. Same in the court of friendship.
什麼是朋友啊。
記得有一次不辛生病了。
也在同時知到什麼是真正的友情；什麼才算是知己。
朋有是一個能讓你在最脆落最傷心時依賴的人。
你知道在你最無助的時後他們會不故一西，赴湯稻火的為你羲牲。
那如果我們能比此信任的話，朋友也就不是問題了。
他的因素不在於你有多可靠或著有多開浪，和有善。
他最幾本的原因就是那兩個字 ﹣﹣ 信任。
如果我相信你可信任，你就是我的好朋友。
那如果在我開口說話是都得三思的話，那我覺這不是友憶而內有其他東東。
友情不之是覺得或你想是就是。
友情是個，是一種行動的表現。
他不在於你善不善常這方面的活動，也不是你反射的一片鏡子。
而是兩人之間的互動与平衡。
那也不代表他永遠都是平衡的。有時你需要他，同樣的他也有需要你的一天。
這是乎相信任吧。
小時後我已為我戀愛了。但時我朋友說如果你沒感受到一個特殊的感覺，那就不是愛。
友情和愛情有一些不一樣。雖說友情也充滿著愛的感覺，但是愛不是兩人的乎動那麼檢單。
愛情是一個天天都為那愛的人念念不忘，常常在他的位子的立場想。
心藏會不停的快跳。
我相信 : “When a friend changes you can find the bond that’s connecting you at a deeper level. The surface stuff isn’t a good thing to depend on. Physical bodies change as they grow. So do emotional bodies and intellectual ones. Take a deep breath. People move, life is more like a wild dance than a ceremony. You just can’t tell what’s coming next.”
（cant explain it in chinese haha）
One thing I feel needs to be said is that there are many other relationships that aren’t friendship that are still positive. There are many people I admire who aren’t friends. I work with lots of people who aren’t friends. It can be enjoyable
The world isn’t divided into two parts — friends and enemies. I choose to think of friend as a very strong word, representing a very close relationship. I think this may be in part due to what I do, because I need a good solid line separating my public life from my personal. A friend is a personal relationship. I like and admire many people who I don’t consider friends.
and
One of the hallmarks of a person, who is more likely to be a friend-that-was than a friend-for-life, is that person quotes anonymous people who say they were my friend but I betrayed them. That’s such a huge turnoff, which usually wakes me up in an instant. A friend would never even consider saying something like that, because it’s so objectifying, so impersonal, so unfair, so un-friendly. In a court of law you’re entitled to cross-examine your accusers. Same in the court of friendship.
what we could have been, 11:47 下午.
